Dear New Teacher, please don’t break my child.

Dear New Teacher,

In three short weeks my firstborn will be starting school, it only feels like yesterday that she was a tiny baby with a fuzzy peachy head, skinny chicken legs and big blue eyes. She will always be my baby. Here she is at a day old.


Tilly has been at nursery for three years now and almost full time for eighteen months, I know she will adapt to five days a week well and enjoy her new school. I can already tell she likes you and that you like her from her visits and that brings me so much comfort.

But please, please never put a lid on my child. She can’t talk, but she will. She can’t do most things your average toddler can do, but she will. If you believe in her. We were told Tilly probably wouldn’t walk. She’s retaught herself to walk multiple times now.  If you believe it, she can do it.

Please be patient with her. It will take weeks, months, even years for her to learn basic things but she WILL if you keep going. Please don’t give up on her.

Please remember she is one of a kind, please don’t tell me you’ve met loads of children like her. You haven’t. They are all different and my one is especially rare. No diagnosis means no limits. She is an individual.


And most of all, I hope you fall in love with her like everyone else has done. She has a lot to teach you if you let her. Not only will she teach you the absolute limits of your patience, she will teach you how important the little things are, how important it is to never give up and that you should never underestimate the power of a small ginger girl on a mission. She will change your life if you let her.

Please don’t break her.

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